Monday, August 12, 2013

Wise Up!

When you're sick and tired of learning the same lessons over and over, you'll stop
enrolling in the same courses over andover.

If you're experiencing same kinds of bad experiences in your life, over and over and over again, it's not a coincidence. It's not bad luck, it's not that you're unlucky in life, it's not a punishment from God, it's not that others keep doing these things to you, and it's not you're just not meant to be happy and that you're destined for misery, abuse, mistreatment, disrespect, failure, poverty and loneliness.

What it is, is that you keep putting yourself in the same situations with the same kinds of people, in the same places that bring you the same old thing. You're almost just asking for what you've been getting. If you like what you're getting and it's working well for you, keep doing what you're doing. If you don't like what you're
getting, it's time for a change...in you.

Stop taking the classes that are teaching you the same lousy lessons. Stop going to class with the same kinds of people that
will only teach you the lessons you don't want or need anymore. You only need the lessons repeated if you didn't learn the
first time and you failed to put the lessons into practice in your life after you were presented the lesson. When you've learned, and you're certain that you've learned and when you know exactly what
you've learned, you will have the wisdom, strength and confidence to decline any person, place or thing that is guaranteed to teach you the same things you already
know.

Be more selective. Be more discriminating. Say "no" to what you know isn't going to
work any better than the last time. Say "yes" only to what shows promise of bringing you experiences you'll enjoy and that you want. Cut your losses, and you'll have more gains than losses. When you get the feeling that someone or something isn't
going to work to your advantage, in favor of your happiness and wellbeing, withdraw from the class immediately. Be more
interested in the quality than quantity.

Raise your the quality of personal
standards, raise the quality of your own opinion of yourself and what you deserve in life, and you'll raise the quality of your
results. Don't willingly enroll in anything less than you want and deserve, and don't ever enroll yourself in misery-making.
Learn to be happy, not unhappy.

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